Dear Andrew, dear Doron,
I've seen your paper about universality of the total height statistics in trees and I think I have an explanation for it.
All families of trees you are considering are Galton-Watson trees conditioned to have $n$ vertices, see: Svante Janson's,
Simply generated trees, conditioned Galton–Watson trees, random allocations and condensation
For such trees it is known that their renormalized *height process* converges towards a λe , where λ is a constant (depending on the family you consider) and e is the Brownian excursion (universal, in the sense that it does not depend on the family of trees you consider), see: The depth first processes of Galton--Watson trees converge to the same Brownian excursion by Jean-François Marckert and Abdelkader Mokkadem
But the total height is just the integral of the height process. Therefore it converges towards λ (Int(e(t),t=0..1))
The random variable Bex= Int(e(t), t=0..1) has been studied by Svante Janson, see